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Hi there! So glad you’re here.

Life is messy – especially as you transition from your 20s to your 30s. It often feels like you’re never quite where you’re supposed to be, or that no matter what you accomplish, there’s always another box to check. I lived that way for years – until I realized I was chasing expectations instead of what really made me happy.

Aren’t these supposed to be the best years of our lives? Then why do so many of us feel lost, behind, or stuck in a race we never signed up for? This question led me to leave my corporate job in search of something more meaningful.

Welcome to the Messy Thirties Club.

This space is for anyone who is navigating life at a different pace, questioning what they really want, and figuring it all out – one step at a time. Here we embrace the highs, the lows, and all the moments in between that make this decade both exciting and terrifying.

Together, we’re building a community where you can take a deep breath, share your story, and realize that while every journey is different, we’re all in this together. I hope this space helps you make sense of it all and empowers you to own your journey – without guilt, without pressure, and without feeling like you’re doing it wrong.

You’re not alone in this.

Much love,
Toni x

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Welcome to the Messy Thirties Club

Think of this as a group chat with your best friends – unfiltered, real, and full of stories to laugh about and lessons to learn. This isn’t about handing out perfect answers or a magical blueprint. No one here has life all figured out; we’re just figuring it out together. Like Samantha in Sex and the City said: ‘We’re just as fucked up as you – it’s the blind leading the blind.’ But maybe, by sharing our experiences, we can create a movement of collective wisdom. You’re not alone – let’s empower each other to find answers to the BIG questions: WHO am I & WHAT the hell am I doing with my life?

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